How to Choose the Right Montessori School: TheMontessori.com Expert Checklist

By TheMontessori.com

Inspired by the practices of Montessori Ivy League

Choosing a Montessori school is different from choosing a regular daycare. Montessori is a philosophy, a method, and a lifestyle. But not every school that calls itself “Montessori” truly follows the method.

This article gives you a clear, simple checklist to help you choose the RIGHT school for your family.

1. Is the School Truly Montessori?

Ask:

  • Do teachers use real Montessori materials?
  • Is the classroom arranged in learning areas?
  • Do children choose their work?
  • Is the environment calm and orderly?

A true Montessori environment is unmistakable.

2. Do Teachers Have Montessori Training?

A school can only be as strong as its teachers.

Ask:

  • “Are your teachers Montessori trained?”
  • “Where do they receive ongoing professional development training?”
  • “Do they receive ongoing training and support the Montessori way?”

Montessori Ivy League invests heavily in training. Authenticity matters.

3. Observe the Classroom Flow

In a true Montessori classroom:

  • Children move freely
  • Lessons are individualized
  • Teachers guide, not lecture
  • Mixed ages learn together

If the environment feels chaotic or rigid, it is not Montessori.

4. Look for Real Montessori Materials

You should see:

  • Pink Tower
  • Brown Stair
  • Sandpaper Letters
  • Moveable Alphabet
  • Number Rods
  • Practical Life materials

If you only see toys or digital screens, walk away.

5. Ask About Discipline Practices

Montessori discipline is:

  • Respectful
  • Calm
  • Non-punitive
  • Based on natural consequences

There are no time-outs, no sticker charts, no punishments.

Children learn self-control through independence and clear limits.

6. Mixed-Age Classrooms

This is a core Montessori principle:

  • 1–3 years
  • 3–6 years

Older children lead. Younger children observe.

It builds confidence and kindness.

7.  Freedom Within Limits

Children should be able to:

  • Choose work
  • Move
  • Explore

BUT also:

  • Respect others
  • Clean up
  • Follow routines

This balance is what makes Montessori powerful.

8. Parent Communication

A quality Montessori program stays connected with parents.

Look for:

  • Photos
  • Daily updates
  • Transparent policies
  • Respectful office staff

Montessori Ivy League prioritizes parent partnership.

9. School Culture & Leadership

A Montessori school reflects its leadership.

Ask:

  • “How long has the school been running?”
  • “What is the school’s educational philosophy?”
  • “What is your vision for children?”

Great Montessori schools have heart, not just curriculum.

10. Trust Your Instinct

Ultimately, the best Montessori school is the one where you feel:

  • Peace
  • Trust
  • Respect
  • Connection

If your heart says yes, that is your school.

The Compass for Authentic Montessori School Selection

The source provides a detailed, ten-point expert checklist to assist parents in selecting an authentic Montessori school that genuinely adheres to the educational philosophy. The guide emphasizes that a true environment requires the consistent use of specialized, recognizable Montessori materials and must be staffed by appropriately trained teachers who receive continuous professional development. Structural requirements highlighted include the necessity of mixed-age classrooms, individualized lessons, and the careful implementation of the principle of freedom within limits. Furthermore, the text dictates that discipline must be respectful, featuring non-punitive discipline practices based on natural consequences rather than traditional time-outs or reward charts. Parents are ultimately encouraged to observe the overall school culture, assess leadership, and trust their instincts when finalizing their choice.