10 Things Every Parent Should Look for in a Preschool — A Montessori Parent Guide
By TheMontessori.com
Inspired by the practices of Montessori Ivy League
Introduction
Choosing a preschool is one of the biggest decisions new parents make. The environment you choose will shape your child’s emotional security, confidence, independence, and love of learning.
Every year, parents ask the same question:
“How do I know which school is the right one for my child?”
This guide gives you the 10 essential qualities to look for in any preschool—Montessori or not. These indicators help you identify a school where your child will feel safe, respected, and inspired to grow.
1. A Calm & Orderly Environment
Children need peaceful surroundings to feel safe and focused.
- natural lighting
- soft, neutral colors
- clutter-free shelves
- quiet routines
- calm adult behavior
A peaceful space supports a peaceful child.
2. Respectful, Warm Interactions
Observe how teachers talk to children.
- kneel to eye level?
- speak gently?
- show patience?
- use polite language?
Children learn respect by watching adults model it.
3. Clean, Safe Classrooms
Look for:
- spotless bathrooms
- clean floors
- sanitized materials
- covered outlets
- tidy shelves
- up-to-date safety equipment
A school should confidently allow you to view its classrooms.
4. Happy, Engaged Children
During your visit, observe:
- Are children calm and focused?
- Do they look secure, not overwhelmed?
- Are they working with purpose, not running aimlessly?
Engaged children = a healthy learning environment.
5. The Right Ratio Approach (Not Tiny Ratios)
✨ A Montessori Community-Based Philosophy
Many parents assume smaller ratios are always better—but in Montessori, the goal is independence, not dependence on adults.
A true Montessori environment allows children to:
- learn from older peers
- guide younger classmates
- collaborate naturally
- solve problems together
- build leadership and confidence
Teachers step in only when necessary, allowing children to develop inner strength.
The best question to ask:
“How do teachers balance supervision while allowing independence?”
6. Organized Learning Materials
The classroom should be beautifully arranged with:
- complete materials
- simple shelf layouts
- child-height access
- purposeful order
A cluttered room overwhelms the mind.
An organized room builds concentration and confidence.
7. A Well-Trained, Committed Staff
Ask about:
- training and ongoing professional development
- classroom management style
Great teachers are the foundation of a great school.
8. Strong Parent Communication
Parents should feel informed and connected.
Look for:
- daily updates
- photos
- responsive staff
- clear communication systems
Strong communication builds trust.
9. A Child-Centered Philosophy
A quality preschool will:
- respect each child’s natural pace
- encourage independence
- support emotional development
- build confidence through real experiences
Children thrive when they are not rushed, compared, or pressured.
10. A Feeling of Belonging
Trust your intuition.
Ask yourself:
- Does this place feel warm?
- Do the teachers seem genuinely caring?
- Can I picture my child feeling safe and happy here?
Parents often say,
“When I found the right school, I felt it instantly.”
Your heart will guide you.
Final Thoughts
Choosing a preschool means choosing your child’s second home.
A place where they learn, grow, and feel deeply safe.
This guide—from TheMontessori.com and inspired by the community-based practices at Montessori Ivy League—is here to help you make a choice with confidence.
A nurturing, peaceful environment today sets the foundation for a joyful, confident child tomorrow.
